tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7181106714206176645.post7513309562595035427..comments2023-08-14T21:45:46.130+10:00Comments on ani pesto: eye openingani pestohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04634396778826130881noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7181106714206176645.post-72041006328912560692009-12-18T08:25:04.977+11:002009-12-18T08:25:04.977+11:00I'm familiar with that cycle. It's hard to...I'm familiar with that cycle. It's hard to get out of the self hatred. Sometimes releasing the anger works for me - screaming in the car, for instance. There's so much emotion plugged up there...it can be helpful to expel some of it.<br /><a href="http://www.bodaweightloss.com" rel="nofollow">BODA weight loss</a>Stephaniehttp://www.bodaweightloss.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7181106714206176645.post-48072487522089499552009-12-11T09:51:36.483+11:002009-12-11T09:51:36.483+11:00You've really made me think -- I tend to see b...You've really made me think -- I tend to see body image as a problem to fix but why should our relationship with ourselves be any different to other relationships with their ups and downs.Kathrynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08699328937978331608noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7181106714206176645.post-44623338316928747002009-12-09T21:47:20.149+11:002009-12-09T21:47:20.149+11:00wow. K not Kays comment is amazing and entirely w...wow. K not Kays comment is amazing and entirely why I adore the blog world. I wanted to add that I ENTIRELY went through this whole process a million times (thank goodness there werent blogs or the net yet now that I look back :)) until I found what worked for me.<br /><br />and K is so right.<br />for me it was releasing the belt.<br />losing my safety net.<br />realizing that fear and worrying was praying for what I DO NOT WANT.<br /><br />and living.MizFithttp://www.mizfitonline.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7181106714206176645.post-12027329090741638462009-12-06T15:57:47.574+11:002009-12-06T15:57:47.574+11:00Ani - drop the safety belt, and go all out. You...Ani - drop the safety belt, and go all out. You've already started the process by getting yourself out of a situation which was making you unhappy and miserable. <br /><br />I so hear you. Not with respect to weight in my case, but a destructive pattern I have in my life. I truly believe that whatever it is, it manifests something - for both of us. Just need to find the right key... <br />The only safety belt I recommend is one provided by the loving, supportive people around. <br /><br />You WILL work this out.K not Kayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02604335355261239426noreply@blogger.com